“How did I get here?”, “How did I not see this coming?”, “Why did I marry that person in the first place?, “How can I avoid making the same mistakes again?” When you’re baffled by your past, it’s scary to imagine taking a step into the future. But here’s the silver lining of divorce: It offers the possibility of real transformation. In this episode Kate and Jane offer their insights into how to take new control over your emotional choices, find real intimacy, and live your best life going forward.